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The older men are always fascinating to women. This is already a fact and there is nothing you can do about it, boys, but of course, this is generalized! Although we can see lots of lucky older men that are holding and taking care of fresh, young adorable girls.
You have to know the possible problem boys and be mindful of the reasons behind why most women preferred older guys. Simple, because older men are…
1. Are not interest of “Mind Games!”
Older men are not actually boring, because they are really witty and are as interesting as hell. It is just that their thoughts of fun do not include sit-in contentment fronting their phones and not taking the calls of their ladies!
2. Holds the “Old-World Charm”
Whether it is just the simple pulling of chairs, getting of flowers, or a simple kiss on the cheeks instead of being a brisk during the first date, still, nothing will melts a ladies heart more than observing things from the school of old thoughts.
3. Are “wiser and smarter”
In all of those years that they spent in their system, men became smarter than the younger counterparts who are busy gulping pint after pint of whiskey or beer. Let's accept it, boys, the older men are the wiser and even more mature. Boys are still silly while they are still young and the ladies will not be happy to wait for these boys to mature and grow up.
4. Are not trying to “change a woman”
While almost everyone likes the pretty and stylish woman, the older men don't bother themselves too much with the single thread of white hair the lady has or that nail polish of a girl. They are more anxious about what lies inside and they are accepting more a woman's imperfections. Compared with the younger boys that are trying to change the girls and are a lot judgmental with the girls they fell in love with.
5. Can take “in-charge”
Older men often take the image of authority or being “in-charge” in the mind of a woman! Whether it is booking a holiday package, choosing the restaurant to eat dinner and they know when is the time to take-charge, and will not make it appear overbearing. Now, this is the reality that is universally acknowledged wherein women tend to prefer dating daddy figures. Because someone from somebody’s reminds them of the father image that they have or missed, and assures them of a safe and protected environment. The promise is unsaid, but it can be felt that they can be there at all times is just enough to catch a woman's heart and makes it melt for them.
6. Established “careers”
Being older, means being more stable in their career than most of the boys; they are financially settled, and the assurance of a calmer living is something that almost all ladies are expecting and imagining to have. It might be a trivial, but when women are planning on settling down, often to look after a nice guy that had a house, a car and a stable job!
7. Know what they really want!
Whether it is a casual date or an intimate bond, mature men know what they wanted from a lady and they are not afraid to express it, and women are grateful for such honesty!
8. Are treating women better and are more “gentlemen”
The only major disparity between a boy and a man is the way they treat the women of their life. Older men had been around for such a long time than boys, and so their understanding with women is a lot better. They are sensitive towards the needs and the feelings of a woman. Right now, I am pretty sure that they know the right responses to say when they are asked with questions like "Honey, where are we going?" Or "Baby, do I look really fat?"
9. A “good conversant”
The admiring trait that came from a more wisdom person is their ability to take an interesting conversation for just about 30 minutes. Be reminded that the conversation does not need to have sex during the conversation for it to become interesting.
10. Are not “hell hook to score” with chicks
Older men are now more secure with the skin. They have done that and been there! Some probably picked up girls at the bars; or had made it secretly with their past girlfriends in the car. This world is no longer an oyster to them. They don't have to brag to every guy friends they met about the chicks that they have bedded. All the men wanted is to spend the calm evening with the woman they love. And for the ladies, there will be nothing more comforting than a man who has all eyes over her.
11. Are aware of giving the climax “pleasure of a woman in bed!”
Hands down, but really older men are a lot better than boys when it comes to bed matters. They know what the women want, and they are aware of their bodies just like they know their beer. They have seen array of it more than just what is in the porn. The delusions made by porn were shattered a long time ago, and the older men are the real one in bed. For them, what you see is what you will get!
12. It is an “illicit pleasure”
That fact that there is that huge age gap is really tempting enough for both partners to be obsessed with each other. It is our nature to do and want what is forbidden! That is human!
It will all start by getting the interest of the girl and then be curious about you. Through this foundation you may gradually create a long lasting attraction with the girl of your dream. But for now, the tips here are about how to make that interest and curiosity sparks and how it will help to make it happen.
1. Project confidence
Confidence is one of the many irresistible traits that you must have in order to attract girls! And ladies can tell instantly whether or not a guy is confident just by glancing with the body language. So, you have to have body language confidence as the initial step. Keep the body movements controlled and calm. This will aid you to relax and let that positive body language to emerge naturally.
2. Get her laughing
All girls wanted a guy that can make her laugh out loud all throughout their not so romantic meet up. And there is no other way to prove that you possess that ability than showing it at the start of the conversation.
Have that girl to smile initially and it will surely aid her to relax and feel comfortable when chatting with you. All while glimmering that attraction and interest.
This is a technique that can be used to begin a conversation and have a girl smiling is playful teasing. It is particularly useful since most of the guys are somewhat insecure to tease playfully a girl directly off the bat. Through beginning with the chat this way you may show that you aren’t intimidated by those attractive girls. You can have her laughing and explain tremendous confidence in similar time.
3. Create an emotional contact
In order to attract a girl, it’s important to be knowledgeable on how to connect with them. That is by building an emotional bond so she will feel closer to you and vice versa.
One means of building that emotional link with a girl is to aid with the perspective of “I” when talking. Express your opinions, thoughts, and most significantly your direct emotions. For example, when talking or telling stories or personal experiences, say something with feelings like, “I love the movie”, instead of “the movie is a great one!” take the girl to your complete emotional world. She will feel more deeply related to you.
4. Make her also win you over
Qualification is all concerning getting the girl to show that she is cool and an interesting girl. It shows that you are a guy with standards that is not investing his attention and time with just an attractive girl. When the guy vigorously flatters a woman with this, the girls will see you as one high-value guy. The girls will place more efforts to keeping your attention and interest too.
After teasing the girl, begin now qualifying through asking questions like “What are the three things I would not know about you just by looking?” The question is great because it is an open-ended question and permits the girl to allocates more information now since she already feels comfortable.
The month of June is really the most famous month of all, for those couples that are planning to tie the knot. June is known as the wedding month.
The ritual for June Brides dates turn to the times of Roman and the 1st of June festival celebrates the union of Jupiter, known as the Goddess of Marriage and also of Childbirth with his husband deity Juno.
During the 14th Century, the month of June was the most pick a month since this is the month when individual starts to bathe again next to winter, and the new brides want the satisfying smelling crowd. It was convenient since the flowers were lately available and were very important in masking the scent of those who had not cleaned up yet; after all, this is the beginning of the bouquet.
In the calendar of Celtic, the word honeymoon pertains to the primary moon after a summer solstice, the June 21. The word became similar with time subsequent to the wedding, although it happened outside the June weddings.
Today, the June brides or people considering or planning of a June wedding, the following are the things that must be taken into consideration:
1. Flowers charges start to drop when it is June since there are more stocks that are becoming available and are closer to home, particularly the bright blooming flowers like lilies, peonies and orchids.
2. Consider a wedding destination. If you have a big family and you want them to spend their vacation with you, summer months are naturally low-season and the sun-seekers may decide to just stay at home to just enjoy the nice weather and it is therefore less costly for you and the guests.
3. Hurricane season is precisely June to November in numerous places, but still, June is the safest months of all.
Nowadays ages and days, we have some reminders of the spring's fame, like the June bride movie of 1948; the "June Bride" song from the 1954 musical of the Seven Brides for the Seven Brothers.
Now weddings are done, prepared and planned at any time the couple wants it. Before many had to lose land or take over a family partnership for a wedding, now, we are not losing land socially. So whether you are an upcoming bride for this month of June, or just simply attending a June wedding of a family member or close friends, just enjoy the moment and have fun! Remember that you are taking part in the most romantic and memorable traditions the planet has.
Mother’s Day is again approaching and so if are still prepared and still figuring out on how you can surprise your mother on her day, try these five activities you can spend with your mom and tell her how much you appreciate all that she did for the family. Create an unforgettable picture-perfect bonding on Mother’s Day and make her not forget it for the rest of her life.
1. Spend quality time in the garden
Mother’s Day indicates an unofficial beginning of a gardening session in many areas. Gardening will depend on what weather you state is in, but this is actually the ideal moment to swing together in the garden. This is the best time to pick up some plants, some latest gardening shears and some fresh soil. Do not just give her a set of new gardening haul as a gift, but instead, spend some quality time with her by getting your hands messy together, getting wet together and by planting something together and make it you plant that you will look back on next year.
2. Take a cooking class together
Check out a local adult school near you where you can have fun and enjoy the class together. A cooking class is just one of the many sample classes that you can take together as students. Learn a new dish and try it at home together so the whole family can have something new to taste that is cooked with love and sprinkle with sweetness from their dear ones. You can also try together a wine-tasting class and learn how to brew a good craft beer together because many are not aware that moms love beer too. This is a good bonding where you can have your good memories together.
3. One-Day vacation
Everybody wants to send their mom to a fabulous Europe vacation, but if it is not within your budget, then a bit of planning and creativity can make her enjoy her trip to Italy while at home. You can cook her most preferred Italian meal and have a bottle in the side of the top red wine in town. You can make this perfect since you have already attended a cooking and a wine tasting class together. Then, decorate it with a touch of Italy that you have in mind. By adding some red, green and white napkins and tablecloths, this will a will make it easier for her mood to be set and feel the Italian breeze with a basket of fresh French bread on the side table. String of lights and a candle light plus some decorations of Italian ambiance will give the ideal atmosphere of Italy. Then, dine with her and hand over her gift that is also Italian inspired, for sure the aura of Italy is felt all around the corner during your dinner.
4. Capture time together
Mother always says, time flies so fast that if she can hold it in her hand to stop it, she will certainly do it, so that she can forever hold you and not let you open your wings and fly, but of course that is not always the case. By spending Mother’s Day with her, you are trying to capture the moment steal with you by the time that you are not around with her. You can make this moment extra special by taking a container or a box and fill it with all the memories that two of you had created through the years. Keep the box and open it next year. Then, next year, write something new again so that every year you have something to read about and take back the time and memories you had together.
There are times that the oldies will find themselves at loss when talking with the young ones, particularly if what they are talking about are things that you don’t have any idea at all. For those who are spending time with their young girls now, here are the 10 possible topics that they might be talking about, that you need to be aware of in case your ideas will be needed to give them assistance and inspiration at the same time.
Girls are usually talking about what they want to be when they grow up and what will be the most motivating professions to take on. When talking to them, talk about what they dream of being when they was still a child, what they are actually doing now if there are some, and what are they dreaming of doing for the rest of their lives or in their future. Tell them that whatever profession they will settle on taking, will be their lifetime partner profession.
Love is normally the most interesting topic of all for girls and having to feel that teenage love is so delightful, but in the contrary, it is the most complicated of all feelings. Being a girl is a thing that will hinder you from making that first move. Girls don’t know what to do, when to do it and how far she needs to do it that will not stretch her limits. So for our girls out there, just be yourself, always wear your most genuine happy smile, for it is believed to work wonders. You may also choose to make that first move since we are now in the 21st century, but be prepared to be rejected or it is the other way around, to win the shy type heart him that lasted for quite some time.
If there is one thing that is common to all girls, that is their love for books. Reading is normally the hobby they usually do alone with their spare time. There are times that they share books, exchange one if there are lots of them and even trades some to shops if these is the only chance they have to have a new one. Being an adult, you can share them the book that moved and touch youso it can help and give them inspiration when they will be in that same situation like yours.
Friendship like their young love is so important to girls. There had been girls before who are grown up ladies now that choose their girlfriends over their loved ones. They have their personal valid and significant reasons which makes a huge impact and influence in their lives. Girls usually asked about how one met the other and how they became close. What are the things that made them like each other company and what made them last the friendship? There are so many things to consider in making friends but these are just their weighing ways in making and choosing if not much, but at least one best buddy whom they can confide and ask everything under the sun, the one they can call...best-friend!
School is in top five, since all our girls goes to school to reach the top one of being a professional someone someday. At school, they usually talk about their professors, subjects passed or failed and the upcoming events and social gatherings to attend to. The most unforgettable and embarrassing moment in their lives happened in this special place where they learned, get hurt, but manage to stand again with the best version of themselves.
After everything is achieved, the travel thing is next in line. Although girls are grown up here now, those best buddies they have during their school days will go together to wander the world. They will mutually discover that other part of the world that they are not in. They will travel and discover as many places as they can for tomorrow is a promise that nobody knows and nobody can predict. If a girl had been to a place that she thought might be helpful and wonderful for the group, then the rest of the gang will for sure try it as well, to have the same experience as her and share the same stories too when they are making their throwbacks in the future.
Music plays a vital role in anybody’s daily living, especially for these girls who really can’t live without it. I know someone that the moment she opened her eyes, she will turn on her music and close it when she sleeps. Music for some serves as an instrument in their working habits and living environment, but for some these serves as their vitamins that give energy to their sleeping blood that sucks their being and becoming lazy for a day's work. To our girls, just enjoy the music and learn to dance to the tune of life as it will take you to the dance floor of your dreams.
8. FREE TIME
I believe that it is not only the girls and the boys that are looking, asking and wishing to have some free time once in a while, because everybody wants it, actually love it. This is the only time when someone can have some relaxation for herself or just being free from worries and any kind of uncertainties is something that we all wish for to have. During your free time, you can choose to do things that give pleasure to you or you can settle for having nothing to do at all. Your free time is yours, enjoy it girls!
Sport is something not new to our girls since they are being active in this activity ever since they are in school. Involving oneself to sports is something that is required to have a healthy lifestyle. Indulging in a kind of sports with your best buddy is another girl bonding moment, that mostly enjoyed during free time, especially for those girls that don’t enjoy music and is not fun of reading either. Remember these girls, when you are playing a sport, always give your best shot and always make your best better and better each time you play to have the winning team, and take home that crown in the end.
10. FAVORITE MEMORIES
Memories are always the last in line. After you enjoy your school days and become a certified someone, the memories of what you have been through thick and thin will be remembered when the sun is nearly setting down. Remember to have a good one, for these are the memories that you are going to share and left behind the people that matters to you and those that sticks to you till your last page is done.
Love takes in different kinds of mental states and emotions, typically strong and positively skilled, ranging from the deep interpersonal liking up to the simplest satisfaction. Commonly, love pertains to the strong feelings, attraction and emotional affection. Love can be an asset representing the human kindness, affection and compassion—the benevolent concern and selfless loyalty for the goodness of others. It may also express affectionate and compassionate actions with the other humans.
The Ancient Greek philosophers recognize the seven forms or kinds of love and essentially these are:
1. Familial love (storge in Greek)
Familial love is a type of philia that relates to the love in between the parents and the children. Generally, storge is the liking born out of dependency or familiarity and, not like with philia or eros, it does not hang with the personal traits. People during the early stage of romantic relationship usually expect the unconditional storge, but discovers only the dependency and the need of eros.
2. Friendly love (philia)
The seal of friendship is the common goodwill. Aristotle thought that a person may bear goodwill to the other for one of the three reasons—these are being useful, being pleasant and being good, that is both virtuous and rational. Friendships started with goodness are usually associated not merely with the mutual benefit but with trust, companionship, and dependability.
3. Romantic love (eros)
Eros is the passionate or sexual love, and is the kind most akin to the modern create of romantic love. Appearing in the Greek myth, this is the shape of madness created by a Cupid’s arrows. This arrow breaks us and then we fall in-love. In the present time, eros has been combined with a broader life power, something akin to the Schopenhauer’s will, a basically blind procedures of striving for reproduction and endurance.
4. Divine love (agape)
Agape is the universal love and these are our love for nature, or God and strangers. Agape is said to include the modern altruism concept, defined as the unselfish fear for others welfare. Altruism leaves a euphoric feeling or known as the helper’s high’. At the social level, altruism works as the sign of cooperative intentions with resource availability and partnering or mating potential. Generally, agape or altruism helps in maintaining and building the social, psychological, and environmental fabric which can enriches, shields, and sustain.
5. Self love (Philautia)
Philautia can either be healthy or unhealthy. Philautia is unhealthy akin to hubris. During the ancient Greece, the person that can be blamed of hubris if in any case, he places himself on top of gods, or over the greater good of many. Many thought that hubris will lead to the nemesis or destruction. Now, hubris has arrived to mean the inflated meaning of one’s abilities, accomplishments, or status, especially when attended by arrogance.
Defining love may assist us in discovering which type we need to offer and what kind we wanted to receive to live an ideal happy life.
People were thinking about the color of love, does it really have colors or just a myth that is passed on to generations? Well, I also don’t know, and this makes me think and do some research about the real color of love or are there really colors for love? Perhaps it is red, some says it is green, and there had been surprising guess like the shades of the rainbow which for me is a very nice thinking and a safe answer, considering that it has all the colors in it. What is written here is not scientific but only an interesting tad of study about the possible perfect color of love. If in any case I cite here your chosen or preferred color and you feel that it is true from your personal point of view, you can share you own feelings too! Don’t be shocked to read some unexpected colors here.
Red is considered the color of blood and fire, and so it is related with energy, danger, strength, war, power, and determination, but it is also means passion, wanting, and love. Red is a very expressive intense color and it is applied to indicate courage. Red brings images to the center and it is an emphasis color that will stimulate people in making quick decisions. In some advertisements they are using red lips or red nails to give emphasis and induce erotic feelings. Since red also denotes energy and strength, some are using it when promoting high physical activities or sports.
Pink is the pale red dye that is usually associated with tenderness, sexuality, sweetness, sensitivity, politeness, passiveness, passion, joy, femininity, friendship, calming, charming, beauty and romance. Remember that when pink is combined with white it symbolizes innocence, youth, tenderness and chastity, however, when it is combined with black or purple, the reverse side of white, it becomes associated with seduction and eroticism.
Purple is the mixture of red’s energy and blue’s stability. Purple is a mysterious, magical love and normally connected to royalty with creativity, dignity, independence, magic, mystery, and wisdom. It represents ambition, luxury, power and nobility. It conveys extravagance and wealth. Since purple is very rare in nature, others are considering it as an artificial one but a good option for feminine’s design. Light purple suggests nostalgic and romantic feelings but the dark purple induce gloom and sad thoughts.
Blue is usually associated with stability and depth and signifies sincere love. It represents confidence, faith, truth, heaven, intelligence, loyalty, trust, and wisdom. Blue is believed to be beneficial to the body and mind for its tranquility and calming effect like the calmness of color of the sea and the sky. It symbolizes sincerity, piety, and cleanliness and it is allied to intellect and consciousness. According to some studies, if purple is for feminine then blue is for masculine. Dark blue is associated to stability, expertise and depth and represents integrity, knowledge, power, and seriousness while the light blue is connected to understanding, tranquility, softness, health and healing.
Green is the nature’s color and for a healthy, balanced love. Green has bright emotional correspondence that symbolizes freshness, fertility, growth, harmony, and safety. Green suggests endurance and stability and it may indicate hope and growth while the dark green is believe to be associated with ambition, jealousy, greed, and with the world of finance or money, Aqua green has the protection and impressive healing power because of its restful color that is pleasing to the human eye, however, the olive green is the accepted color of peace.
Yellow is the sunshine’s color for a wise and a happy love. Yellow arouses cheerfulness, creates warming effect, and stimulates mental activity but when it is overused it is believed to have a disturbing effect. Yellow indicates loyalty and honor and induce cheerful, pleasant feelings. Yellow is use in making designs because of its effectiveness in attracting attention, but it is not suggested to use when promoting men products like a suit or a car, because men looks at yellow as a childish color. Light yellow is associated with energy, freshness, happiness, intellect, and joy but sometimes mistaken as white, so it needs a darker color combination to highlight it. While the dull yellow represents jealousy and caution.
Orange merges the blissfulness of yellow and the power of red and represents a vital, warm, creative love. This color is associated with sunshine, joy, and represents attraction, creativity, determination, encouragement, enthusiasm, fascination, happiness, stimulation and success. By using our human eye, it gives the very hot color and a sensation of heat. Even so, orange is not the same aggressive as red color. Orange is the symbol of endurance, strength, generates invigorating effects and motivates mental activities. It has a very high visibility to seize attention and give emphasis on designs. While dark orange may denote distrust and deceit and red-orange relates to aggression, desire, domination, pleasure, sexual passion, and the thirst for action.
There are unexpected connotations of what these colors means particularly with love. It says, Red is for passion, Pink is for romance, Purple for a magical love, while Blue is a sincere love, Green for a balanced love, Yellow for a wise love and Orange for a creative love. In whatever color of love we are taking part now, just enjoy the season of love everyday and as if it is always Valentines’ Day every day. Try sending a blue heart or a purple rose to your love one to feel the difference and fantasy of love each day with the combination of crazy colors possible. Let us just feel all the love in the air.
After hearing the bells ringing, the honeymoon will be the next thing to look forward to by the newlywed and since honeymoons are everywhere, many love birds are thinking about the word "honeymoon" derivation, or where did it really came from?
Back then in the 5th century, the culture was represented in a calendar time together with the moon cycle the newlywed will drink the mead or the honey during the first moon of their marriage. The “mead” is an alcoholic drink that is a honey-based and it was thought to have the aphrodisiac properties or the “love drugs”.
The etymology of “honeymoon” came from the word HONY which pertains to a honey and specifically refers to an “indefinite stage of pleasure and tenderness experiencing by the newlywed, and how sweet it is to be married. While, MOONE, pertains to the fleeting quantity of instances that the sweetness might lasts, and so the old English “hony moone” was formed.
In the 19th century, in Britain, the newlywed will apply their honeymoon to go for the bridal trip, where the couple will travel to take a visit with their family and friends who cannot make it to their wedding day. Nowadays, most of the couples travel on for their honeymoon to have their precious time alone with just each other together.
TRADITIONS FOR HONEYMOON
A month of wine
This principle may sound fantastic, but the truth is that it is pretty grim. The thought of the “honeymoon” way back in the 5th century of European cultures was that the honeymoon age was calculated during the moon cycles. During their wedding, the newlywed was presented with the “moon” or simply a month’s value of mead, which means that they are going to drink together the alcoholic honey wine for a month. The Mead was thought to have aphrodisiac or the love drugs, the couples were anticipated to overdo on wine for about 30 days to be drunk enough and establish that sexual intimacy. It was hoped that the newlywed might conceive the first baby during this time.
So this concept is believed as “moon’s worth of the honey wine”, wow!
The groom will hide the so called “kidnapped bride” to be away for couple of months until the family will stopped searching for them or and the bride becomes pregnant, and at which moment, it will be considered so late for a marriage to become nullified. This is believed to be practiced by some poor men during the early centuries to avoid paying the family of the woman some dowry, like in China, South and East Asia, Africa, South America, and most European gypsy communities.
The kidnapping is a far less romantic couple’s getaway right after the wedding and according to some researchers that a honeymoon is the relic of the “marriage by capture”.
A family affair
Nowadays, the couples are marrying for love, but in the history, most weddings were not about romance but about class and inheritance, just like the “Pride and Prejudice”.
This is a belief that the couples do not need to be by themselves, they need to use their honeymoon time in experiencing a bridal tour by taking the time to visit their family and friends who did not make it to their wedding.
Honeymoons are changing. The honeymoon of today’s concept has matured to a more luxury affair. It is not about hanging by the pool and drinking some cocktails because couples now are doing it in another way.
Here are the latest honeymoon crazies that inspire the couples to consider everything that is outside the box or away from reality.
Today, many couples are selecting the shortest and the lesser expensive mini-moon or honeymoon after their wedding. The couples are settling with a domestic trip for a couple of days. Then, it will be followed with a longer trip of a few months and sometimes a year, if it is now within their means.
Road trips and the campervans
Rather than allowing themselves to sit on the deck chair for some days, there are many couples that are now selecting to rent a car and are out there on an open road taking a multiple visits to different popular spot destinations that will hit their way.
Now, there are also the growing numbers of newly couples that are decided and choose to share to the less fortunate whatever blessings and good fortune they received. The couples simply volunteers and acting some charity work for some organization or projects. “Voluntarism” now is spreading to honeymooners, because there are also multiple companies that are tendering the life changing experience of the newly couples, with enriching and fulfilling the volunteering experiences, and some of the countries for this are Borneo, Nepal, and Thailand.
There is the latest study that shows that about twelve percent of the newlyweds now are no longer having a honeymoon by themselves alone, instead, they are taking with them, their parents and close relatives and some are even bringing their closest best friends and family friends. The groom is also the one that chooses their honeymoon destinations, for the whole family with friends.
While the honeymoon today has a positive connotation, it was applied initially to give warning to the newlyweds about the fading love.
In 1542, Samuel Johnson wrote about the first month of marriage to become full of pleasure and all tenderness; but comparing the mutual affections of the newlywed couples to the shifting moon which is not anymore full and that it started to wane.
Then, in 1552, Richard Huloet wrote about a proverb that is applied to the newlywed which says that, it will not fall-out of love initially, but instead in the beginning, they will love exceedingly, and the vulgar people will call it the “hony mone.”
The honeymoon is a one-shot chance to be away with your husband or your wife and be basked with wedded bliss to an exotic, overpriced location. But although the modern day thinking of seclusion and intimacy, post-wedding trips and vacations have not always been pleased, but still depends on how you spend it and how enjoyed the couples have been.
Prayers of special thanksgiving rites are just ordinary among all religions right after the harvesting times. The Thanksgiving history in North America came from the English traditions starting from the Reformation of the Protestant. It also has features of the harvest festival, although New England harvest happens before late-November wherein the present Thanksgiving holiday is observed. During the English tradition, special thanksgiving religious ceremony was significant in the sovereignty of Henry VIII during an English Reformation. Before 1536, there were about 95 Church holidays and 52 Sundays that people were obliged to attend church services sometimes pay really expensive celebrations.
Thanksgiving in Canada
Base on some historians, the initial festival of Thanksgiving in Northern America happened during the 1578 journey of Martin Frobisher in looking for the Northwest Passage from England. The origins of Thanksgiving in Canada were sometimes traced to a French settler that arrived in New France during the 17th century, and celebrated their winning harvests.
While the settlers in Nova Scotia that came from New England right after 1700 during the late autumn, Thanksgiving festivities became a commonplace.
Thanksgiving in the United States
In 1621, the Wampanoag Indians and Plymouth colonists shared the autumn harvest banquet that is recognized today being one of the initial Thanksgiving celebrations through the entire colonies. For about two centuries, the moments of thanksgiving were commemorated by individual states and colonies. It was not until the year 1863, in the middle of a Civil War, where President Abraham Lincoln announced the National Thanksgiving Day should be held every November.
Turkey for Thanksgiving Day
In 1621, Pilgrim Edward Winslow decided to write a letter regarding today’s most famous meal - turkey.
There were theories that say about turkey hunting before the dinner.
Then another one says that the selection of turkey was through the inspiration of Queen Elizabeth, whom was at dinner when she overheard that the Spanish ship sunk while on their mode to attack England. Then she was so delighted with the news and then she ordered one more goose to be served, and the US settlers also roasted turkeys because they had been motivated by her actions.
And there were also sayings that wild turkeys were initially from North America and so they became the natural choice of the early settlers.
Classic Thanksgiving dishes
Pies - pumpkin pies were the most common, but apple, sweet potato, pecan, and mincemeat pies are now becoming popular.
Stuffing or dressing - a mixture of bread cubes, onions, chopped celery, carrots, and sage full inside a turkey for roasting. Chopped sausage or bacon, chestnuts, and apples or raisins were sometimes included during the stuffing.
Turkey - goose, duck and ham, or turduken, a spatchcocked or a spattlecock is a combo of the three whole birds.
Thanksgiving observance in few countries
Australia - In Norfolk Island, it was celebrated every last Wednesday in the month of November.
Canada - Pumpkin pie is usually served here every second Monday of October.
Grenada - In the Caribbean, Western India, they have a National holiday called as Thanksgiving Day every October 25. Although they have the same name celebration, but India marks it as an anniversary from 1983 of the U. S. -led attack on the island.
Germany - There is a food decoration for the Erntedankfest, an important religious component, the Christian Thanksgiving harvest fiesta in early October. The festivity does not contain any large dinners, instead Germans were decorating churches with autumn crops, adorably arranged fronting the altar.
India - Thai, Pongal is called a Harvest Thanksgiving Festival that is commonly celebrated in India, Malaysia and Sri Lanka. It is a 4-day festive, wherein the base of the Gregorian calendar was normally remembered every January and part of their celebration is boiling of the initial rice of the season sanctified to the Sun.
Japan - Labor Thanksgiving Day is the national holiday that takes place on November 23. Their law that established the holiday was adopted from an American occupation after the World War II and cites it as the occasion for remembering Labor Day, and production by giving each other’s gratitude.
Liberia - In 1820, in West Africa, Liberia, with the migration of the freed dark slaves from the US and their Thanksgiving is every first Thursday of November.
Philippines - while it was a part of American colony during the initial half of the 20th century, Thanksgiving celebration was a particular public holiday on similar day with the Americans, but it was a secret. In year 1965, it was renewed by former President Ferdinand Marcos on September 21, during the martial law imposed in the country. Then, it was stopped after the Marcos’s was out, and continued again through' the Business Process Outsourcing or BPO in 2001 for the local employees that are joining with their American employers.
Saint Lucia - the Thanksgiving celebration is taking place every first Monday of October.
The Netherlands - Many of the Pilgrims that migrated to Plymouth Plantation resided in Leiden City and to commemorate this, the non-denominational Thanksgiving celebration services is happening every year since 1609.
United States – Thanksgiving is presently commemorated every 4th Thursday of November by the federal legislation since 1941, ever since its proclamation in 1863. Traditionally, Thanksgiving is a celebration of the blessings and harvest of the year. The Americans "Holiday Season" starts with the Thanksgiving celebration.
United Kingdom - The Harvest Festival of flowers at the church in England, Shrewsbury every nearest Sunday from the harvest moon that takes place next to the autumnal equinox.
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