You have to know the possible problem boys and be mindful of the reasons behind why most women preferred older guys. Simple, because older men are…
Older men are not actually boring, because they are really witty and are as interesting as hell. It is just that their thoughts of fun do not include sit-in contentment fronting their phones and not taking the calls of their ladies!
Whether it is just the simple pulling of chairs, getting of flowers, or a simple kiss on the cheeks instead of being a brisk during the first date, still, nothing will melts a ladies heart more than observing things from the school of old thoughts.
In all of those years that they spent in their system, men became smarter than the younger counterparts who are busy gulping pint after pint of whiskey or beer. Let's accept it, boys, the older men are the wiser and even more mature. Boys are still silly while they are still young and the ladies will not be happy to wait for these boys to mature and grow up.
While almost everyone likes the pretty and stylish woman, the older men don't bother themselves too much with the single thread of white hair the lady has or that nail polish of a girl. They are more anxious about what lies inside and they are accepting more a woman's imperfections. Compared with the younger boys that are trying to change the girls and are a lot judgmental with the girls they fell in love with.
Older men often take the image of authority or being “in-charge” in the mind of a woman! Whether it is booking a holiday package, choosing the restaurant to eat dinner and they know when is the time to take-charge, and will not make it appear overbearing. Now, this is the reality that is universally acknowledged wherein women tend to prefer dating daddy figures. Because someone from somebody’s reminds them of the father image that they have or missed, and assures them of a safe and protected environment. The promise is unsaid, but it can be felt that they can be there at all times is just enough to catch a woman's heart and makes it melt for them.
Being older, means being more stable in their career than most of the boys; they are financially settled, and the assurance of a calmer living is something that almost all ladies are expecting and imagining to have. It might be a trivial, but when women are planning on settling down, often to look after a nice guy that had a house, a car and a stable job!
Whether it is a casual date or an intimate bond, mature men know what they wanted from a lady and they are not afraid to express it, and women are grateful for such honesty!
The only major disparity between a boy and a man is the way they treat the women of their life. Older men had been around for such a long time than boys, and so their understanding with women is a lot better. They are sensitive towards the needs and the feelings of a woman. Right now, I am pretty sure that they know the right responses to say when they are asked with questions like "Honey, where are we going?" Or "Baby, do I look really fat?"
The admiring trait that came from a more wisdom person is their ability to take an interesting conversation for just about 30 minutes. Be reminded that the conversation does not need to have sex during the conversation for it to become interesting.
Older men are now more secure with the skin. They have done that and been there! Some probably picked up girls at the bars; or had made it secretly with their past girlfriends in the car. This world is no longer an oyster to them. They don't have to brag to every guy friends they met about the chicks that they have bedded. All the men wanted is to spend the calm evening with the woman they love. And for the ladies, there will be nothing more comforting than a man who has all eyes over her.
Hands down, but really older men are a lot better than boys when it comes to bed matters. They know what the women want, and they are aware of their bodies just like they know their beer. They have seen array of it more than just what is in the porn. The delusions made by porn were shattered a long time ago, and the older men are the real one in bed. For them, what you see is what you will get!
That fact that there is that huge age gap is really tempting enough for both partners to be obsessed with each other. It is our nature to do and want what is forbidden! That is human!